So the playing has finished, now what? Make them a bed and take their breakfast order? Offer a tea or coffee? Walk them to the door and say, “thanks for coming”? (Ha ha ha, thanks for “coming”… Anyway.) And then how do you say goodbye? Do you […]
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Your playmate/s arrive and you all settle into some conversation and perhaps a few drinks, and the conversation is great, but there is an underlying “let’s get to the playing” feeling or desire, but no one is saying anything or making the first move which can be […]
Well there are a number of things you can do to protect yourself, especially if there is potential for major life disruption if particular people you clearly love and adore, find out about your secret double life. This is where you have to assess the “what if?” […]
And are they for the advanced or beginner? Both! That’s the beauty of them! These clubs have a variety of rooms and some have options such as spas, swings, dance floors, poles, etc. and they also have themed nights so can be a lot of fun. If […]
This is for those who have decided it’s ok for either one of you to chat or meet potential playmates alone. We have nights where at least one of us is out doing something while the other is home with the children so one is likely chatting/texting […]
Pretty much every online dating website gives you the option to create a profile of some description; it’s your advertisement to draw in your ideal playmates, as well as a way of filtering out the not-so-ideal playmates (trust me, you want that)! Be warned, there is a […]
This is not one of those times you come out with “you suck” when it’s not a command/direction. And I don’t recommend you keep this little gem to yourself either because then you limit your opportunity to experience ongoing, orgasmic awesomeness!
There are a large number of clubs and events out there in the swingers playground, and the question I get asked a lot is “which one should we go to?” There isn’t one answer so I thought I’d go through some things to consider, helping you come […]
The first thing to realise is that your secret is out and you can’t change it now. The only way to really keep that secret is to never swing in the first place. It’s inevitable that at some point, someone you’ve played with could let it slip, […]
It’s up to you if you want people to know what you get up to… or not. You could keep it a secret so you can still have that cheeky grin on a Monday morning when asked if you had a good weekend knowing you’ve had sleepless, […]
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