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Toys for Her, Him and Both!

Here are a small selection of toys that are available, by clicking on one of the toys, you’ll be taken to the site that has that toy and a whole lot more. I really like this site, it’s well put together and very well presented 🙂

For Her:

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For Him:

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For Couples:

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Relationship Coaching

I’m the professional you need to see if…

  • You are considering changing your relationship from traditional to something else, such as swinging, and you are unsure how you’ll both go or how to do it
  • You both want to swing or play with others, but at least one of you has some issues such as jealousy, insecurity or low self-esteem
  • You got into swinging or seeing others and now stuff has come up
  • Your relationship has ended because of something related to swinging or cheating, and you want to be able to attract and create a better relationship next time around
  • You trying to define how your relationship should work
  • You are having trouble getting passed your own relationship programming that says anything other than traditional or straight is wrong/bad (for singles as well as couples)
  • You are discovering some bisexual desires that you aren’t sure how to handle or share with your partner

Basically I’m your transitions expert, when you are going through relationship changes such as going from traditional to swinging/open/poly, or from being in a relationship to being single again and vice versa, (especially if you want the new relationship to end up swinging/open/poly) then I have both personal experience and expertise to help make it all as easy as possible. Equally when it comes to sexuality transitions such as going from straight to bisexual/gay, then I’m your coach!

The Difference Between My Coaching and Counselling

  • Counselling is a lot of talking, which is effective with the right counselleor but can be much slower
  • I use tools to make shifts at the sub-conscious level which makes coaching fast and effective
  • My coaching is no-holds-barred; nothing is taboo or can’t be addressed and talked about
  • Many counsellors are not experienced in, or completely comfortable talking about anything that isn’t traditional. I am very comfortable which makes others feel safe enough to express their real thoughts an feelings
  • Sex, sexuality and relationships outside the traditional box is my zone; it’s only open, honest, supporting and receptive here

Coaching is about identifying the problem quickly, processing it using cutting edge mindset tools that work with both the conscious and sub-conscious mind, and then straight to cementing in the solution using practical exercises that get you into blissful happiness and harmony again.

I certainly don’t want to be working with you for years; I aim for breakthroughs and empowerment, sending you on your way with tools you can use by yourself. If things change and you have a different transition to make, then let’s work together again and get you back on your way quickly, but years together? I don’t think so, dependency doesn’t work for me so if you want to be empowered and skilled up to create your own thri

The Essential Guide for Adventurous Couples

Want to know more about having a threesome, foursome or moresome?


Not sure where to start or even if it’s for you?


Got questions, fears or concerns that you can’t ask your friends or family about?


For just $39.95 (25% off) $29.95, this is a totally unique, down-to-earth book that covers the how-to, the what-if and the answers to the questions you’ve not been game to ask…

Whether you’ve already started or just considering the idea, this is the absolute must-have guide that will help you navigate your relationship through the process of either deciding if it is for you or not, or safely going down this path into an exciting and passionate new world!

My name is Chantelle and I’ve been where you are now…

My husband and I had our first sharing experience in 2000 but we didn’t really make the lifestyle choice until 2007 due to having a baby and having to get through the initial feelings, concerns, fears and thoughts around trying it, for both of us.

When we decided to do it there was no book or site with in depth information about the relationship side of making this decision, what to expect, what feelings might come up or how to deal with them.

With a strong life coaching background, I had a lot more tools and insights than the regular couple, as well as a lot less emotional baggage. I wrote this book because I wanted to make it easier for other people to know what they were really in for and how to be prepared where possible. It’s about avoiding the pitfalls (yes there are some) and creating a deeper connection with your partner along with a whole lot of extra fun! (Trust me, the fun is worth it!!)

Our relationship has now evolved into something absolutely spectacular and our intimate relationship is awesome! We both work full time and have 2 children so pre-sharing, there were times that we got into a romantic rut, as many couples do… Not anymore though!

What many people don’t realise is how your relationship is vulnerable during this time. There are a lot of things you need to know and consider because it can go wonderfully right, or terribly wrong…

Even if you don’t end up going down the sharing road, I guarantee your relationship is going to change as a result of new conversations and sharing of thoughts and fantasies.

For some the idea will be exciting, for others it will be scary because the rules by which you’ve been operating in your relationship, are changing. This is uncharted territory for you both so it’s understandable that there may be some apprehension about the idea, what it means and what could happen if you decide to do it.

Let me tell you this though; if done right, it will take your relationship to a whole other level that you’ve never experienced before. It’s done that for us, and a many other couples in a sharing lifestyle that have navigated their relationship through the transition in the best possible way.

“So I sat and read your book last night and CONGRATULATIONS! I loved it! I wish this had have been around when I first started out 🙂 So easy to read and follow, the terminology/wording used was great and I believe perfect for the topic. I love the discussion points too and the lists throughout, invaluable and I also learnt something a little myself as I’m in the process of telling one of my very best friends (know for over 20 years) that I’m involved in the lifestyle so it was great to read, so full of common sense, loved it, loved it and from now on when people enquire about Club True Blue, in my response I’m going to add a link to your book. It really needs to get out there.

The way you have also made the book personal, giving people your own actual experiences and being totally honest with the read is a wonderful touch. Well done, it was a great, easy read!” – Julie, in the lifestyle since 2003, Club True Blue VIC

It’s over 200 pages of what is, how-to, what if, the serious stuff and relationship saving information!

I’ve seen couples break up and divorce from going down this road unprepared… If you value what you have and you only want to make your relationship more passionate, loving, adventurous, connected and fun, then get yourself a copy of The Essential Guide for Adventurous Couples.


It’s in in both book and eBook format. Real answers and complete privacy. Book $39.95 (25% off) $29.96 plus P&H, or ebook for only $29.95 (25% off) AU$22.46!

(NB: If you are in Australia, contact Chantelle Austin International direct to order a copy and pay only local P&H costs instead of international, and to get your copy within 2 weeks instead of 6!)

Support independent publishing: Buy this book on Lulu.

WARNING: Reading this book may save your relationship and make sure you go down the road that increases your libido, your connection to your partner, your passion for each other and for life… Now, don’t say I didn’t warn you!

PS: You aren’t alone when it comes to thinking about this, nor trying it. While there are no definite statistics of who’s in and who’s out, it’s more common that most realise. There are lots parents, professionals and “normal” people that enjoy an adventurous relationship, it’s just not something that comes up at dinner parties… well, sometimes it does 🙂