Hmm… what did make me decide to explore bisexuality??
Mr Wonderful — 5 May 2009 – 9:42pm
That’s a good question… and I’m not really sure I have the answer to that one.
Chantelle and I had decided to venture into swinging and were exploring all kinds of fun and funky activities. Part of this was lots of discussion about all the things we wanted to try, and agreeing on what we wanted to add to our “Sexual Bucket List”.
From memory I don’t think there was anything Bi on that initial list.
But hell! Everybody loves you when your Bi!!!
Now, playing in close proximity to other men there is always a chance that there is some “collatoral damage” or accidental touching between men. Plus you get to see all the other guys equipment in action, especially when its pleasuring your own wife.
Was that where it started to peak my interest?
Was it watching all that porn? After all, porn is never as interesting without lots of dick. Albeit penetrating a lovely lady.
I can’t even remember who brought up the topic of me exploring my inner bisexual. But surely it was Chantelle… that sounds like something she’d come up with.
I do remember lots of text messages. These messages started with curiousity about me touching another man and escalated into all kinds of sordid boy on boy activities. The end result to these text messages being me being deskbound hiding a huge erection and Chantelle very hot and frustrated. (We were both at our respective workplaces at the time).
So if given the opportunity, I was going to explore this “playing with boys” thing.
Which of course was like a red flag to a bull, with Chantelle making sure she found lots of bi guys, whether in a couple or single.
The first time I played with a boy.. Chantelle was the center of attention for 3 guys. Whilst we were giving her a 6 handed massage on the massage table, there was some “collatoral damage” when one of the other guys hands brushed my hard on. From that point it was on. Whilst there was rather minimal boyplay that night, with Chantelle remaining the real focus, it was the start of bigger and better things.
Myself and Chantelle have shared quite a few men now, and had all kinds of fun experiences. So I’m glad I’ve tried it, and am happy to call myself Bi.
I do play with boys, but I’m not really attracted to them like girls. When I see a gorgeous girl walking down the street I sit up, take notice and try to have a sly perve. I don’t really get that with guys, although I do occasionally say to Chantelle “I could go a bit of that” when looking at the kind of guy I know she would be attracted to.
And that is the other side of it. She loooooooooooooooooovvves seeing me with another guy. In fact, she could happily sit and watch that all night. I just have to keep reassuring her that I’m not doing these things just because of how much she likes it!!
I’m not sure what the point is for this ramble, but she started it and that’s just what I think!!
Because, because, because………
:o)
To read Chantelle’s view click here :o)
We're sensual, sexual beings – period
schwidgie — 4 June 2009 – 6:34pm
Thank you for sharing your experience – it resonated with my own awareness.
I’ve often remarked flippantly to people that everyone is bisexual but jut too conditioned for it to be revealed. But I do believe there’s a level of truth.
In exploring my own sexuality I’ve come to realise that the sensual, sexual pleasure my body can experience is entirely based on my willingness to let go and allow the experience. It’s an easy test: when your eyes are closed what do you know of the source of a caress? The less we’re making mental associations the less it maters.
So on this basis, while I don’t (yet?) find myself being attracted to other men in the same way I do with women, surely I am completely capable of experiencing deep, vulnerable, intimate and sensual experiences with men or women?
The other thing that struck me (quite hard) was my general revultion for male sexuality. What was so hard about it is I realised that, being male, that’s what I must subconsciously think of my own sexuality. As I’ve explored my own sexuality and developed a curiosity and appreciation for my own body and its sensational experiences the revulsion has disipated. And slowly, slowly I’m developing a curiosity about other mens bodies as a mirror to further exploring and appreciating my own physical and sensual being.
A bit scary but exciting too.