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The Essential Guide for Adventurous Couples

Want to know more about having a threesome, foursome or moresome?


Not sure where to start or even if it’s for you?


Got questions, fears or concerns that you can’t ask your friends or family about?


For just $39.95 (25% off) $29.95, this is a totally unique, down-to-earth book that covers the how-to, the what-if and the answers to the questions you’ve not been game to ask…

Whether you’ve already started or just considering the idea, this is the absolute must-have guide that will help you navigate your relationship through the process of either deciding if it is for you or not, or safely going down this path into an exciting and passionate new world!

My name is Chantelle and I’ve been where you are now…

My husband and I had our first sharing experience in 2000 but we didn’t really make the lifestyle choice until 2007 due to having a baby and having to get through the initial feelings, concerns, fears and thoughts around trying it, for both of us.

When we decided to do it there was no book or site with in depth information about the relationship side of making this decision, what to expect, what feelings might come up or how to deal with them.

With a strong life coaching background, I had a lot more tools and insights than the regular couple, as well as a lot less emotional baggage. I wrote this book because I wanted to make it easier for other people to know what they were really in for and how to be prepared where possible. It’s about avoiding the pitfalls (yes there are some) and creating a deeper connection with your partner along with a whole lot of extra fun! (Trust me, the fun is worth it!!)

Our relationship has now evolved into something absolutely spectacular and our intimate relationship is awesome! We both work full time and have 2 children so pre-sharing, there were times that we got into a romantic rut, as many couples do… Not anymore though!

What many people don’t realise is how your relationship is vulnerable during this time. There are a lot of things you need to know and consider because it can go wonderfully right, or terribly wrong…

Even if you don’t end up going down the sharing road, I guarantee your relationship is going to change as a result of new conversations and sharing of thoughts and fantasies.

For some the idea will be exciting, for others it will be scary because the rules by which you’ve been operating in your relationship, are changing. This is uncharted territory for you both so it’s understandable that there may be some apprehension about the idea, what it means and what could happen if you decide to do it.

Let me tell you this though; if done right, it will take your relationship to a whole other level that you’ve never experienced before. It’s done that for us, and a many other couples in a sharing lifestyle that have navigated their relationship through the transition in the best possible way.

“So I sat and read your book last night and CONGRATULATIONS! I loved it! I wish this had have been around when I first started out 🙂 So easy to read and follow, the terminology/wording used was great and I believe perfect for the topic. I love the discussion points too and the lists throughout, invaluable and I also learnt something a little myself as I’m in the process of telling one of my very best friends (know for over 20 years) that I’m involved in the lifestyle so it was great to read, so full of common sense, loved it, loved it and from now on when people enquire about Club True Blue, in my response I’m going to add a link to your book. It really needs to get out there.

The way you have also made the book personal, giving people your own actual experiences and being totally honest with the read is a wonderful touch. Well done, it was a great, easy read!” – Julie, in the lifestyle since 2003, Club True Blue VIC

It’s over 200 pages of what is, how-to, what if, the serious stuff and relationship saving information!

I’ve seen couples break up and divorce from going down this road unprepared… If you value what you have and you only want to make your relationship more passionate, loving, adventurous, connected and fun, then get yourself a copy of The Essential Guide for Adventurous Couples.


It’s in in both book and eBook format. Real answers and complete privacy. Book $39.95 (25% off) $29.96 plus P&H, or ebook for only $29.95 (25% off) AU$22.46!

(NB: If you are in Australia, contact Chantelle Austin International direct to order a copy and pay only local P&H costs instead of international, and to get your copy within 2 weeks instead of 6!)

Support independent publishing: Buy this book on Lulu.

WARNING: Reading this book may save your relationship and make sure you go down the road that increases your libido, your connection to your partner, your passion for each other and for life… Now, don’t say I didn’t warn you!

PS: You aren’t alone when it comes to thinking about this, nor trying it. While there are no definite statistics of who’s in and who’s out, it’s more common that most realise. There are lots parents, professionals and “normal” people that enjoy an adventurous relationship, it’s just not something that comes up at dinner parties… well, sometimes it does 🙂