Well she isn't a sexologist, Dr or Sexpert by any traditional definition, however she is a fully qualified Master Results coach, Master in Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Hypnosis. Also a mum, wife for the second time, entrepreneur and a swinger which means she has had more personal experience than most. Here she shares her journey as she continues to explore and understand the complexities of love, life, sex, and sexuality!

She's really just a regular woman who is not shy to talk about relationships, sex and taboo sexual topics. In fact she easily talks about sex and sexuality as if she were talking about grocery shopping, and you'll find no holds barred honesty as she is authentic and real in everything she does...

She's recently been on Nova FM and Today Tonight, she also writes for www.SwingersDatingGuide.com.au and AO Magazine about swinging relationships but her expertise and talents reach far beyond just the swinging aspect of love, sex and relationships.

Down to earth, naturally inquisitive and definitely not shy, she is the person you go to when you want to ask the questions you're too afraid to ask anyone else. She finds the answers and she shares them in hopes that it means someone out there can feel better about themselves or their sexual prowess. With a knack for making people feel completely comfortable, she leaves you with an empowered feeling, the answers you were looking for, and sometimes makes you giggle along the way.

Her background/experience:

I know what you're thinking, if she's not a sexologist, Dr or Sexpert, who is she to be talking about sex, sexuality and relationships? What makes her any different than the average person?

Well in her 34 short years she has experienced or is experiencing the following (the short version):

1. Divorced once after being together for 6 years, she took a lot of what she learned .

2. Casual sex relationships and dating between husbands.

3. Currently in a phenomenal relationship (with Mr Wonderful), together since December 2000 and married in April of 2003.

4. Has 2 children and has been in the post-baby sexual rut.

5. Is currently a swinger and has been officially since about April 2007.

6. Is bi curious, with a bisexual husband. Neither were that way when they first got together but they have gone through the journey together.

7. Is in business for herself and has worked full time and longer hours while still managing to create a spicy sex life.

8. Has been in the sexual rut that happens sometimes when you're both working and being parents.

9. Is a fully qualified Life Coach, Master Results Coach (and Master in NLP ) helping people work on their own self esteem, sexuality and relationships "stuff".

The long version:

Well, she is now very happily married to a man she calls “Mr Wonderful” (as he shall be named from here forth). They have been and are the envy of many as they are truly soul mates, connected deeply on all levels while enjoying a very healthy and very regular (somewhat raunchy) sex life.

Together they have learned what it takes to create a phenomenal relationship that continues to grow and deepen and while other couples are fighting or not talking, they are enjoying both the company of each other and sometimes the company extra friends. She believes that life is just too short.

Both are also currently exploring their own sexuality and bi side together so you'll find plenty on the site about that journey that you might be able to relate to. She shares all of her thoughts and experiences for both of them and occasionally Mr Wonderful throws in his 2 cents worth.

Chantelle has been there and done most things that the average person experiences in their relationship lifetime which gives her the empathy and understanding to know how others feel. She is using this platform to just be who she is and share some intimate details with the world in hopes that other people can either learn from her mistakes, realise they aren't alone or so they can realise what they are thinking and feeling is normal.

She has a passion for helping others discover who they really are, what they truly want and what is right for them by helping them to shed the values, beliefs and boundaries that aren't their own. Often the catalyst for change she promotes an open minded approach to life, love and sex, therefore helping people to both accept themselves as they are, and others, as they are.

So get to know her through her Dear Diary entries which are truly real and raw with her personal thoughts and experiences as she goes through them. If something she writes in there resonates, she'd love for you to comment and say so, so others can know that it's not just Chantelle that has gone through or thought it.

Feel free to ask her questions through the Ask Chantelle form if you'd like to know something she hasn't covered, and check out her articles for something different.

She welcomes any suggestions for solutions you'd like to see her create and provide so don't be shy, she certainly isn't!