He and his beautiful wife were swingers!

If all of his needs were being met, he wouldn’t feel the need for anything else. The fact he had a physical affair with another woman (or more) doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his wife but that potentially he has a need for variety that’s not being fulfilled. It makes complete sense that if they were swingers this whole situation wouldn’t have happened, now doesn’t it?

It’s a “have your cake and eat it too” lifestyle that has provided many couples the variety they need in their sex life to keep their relationship full of love and passion. Seriously, there are only so many positions and toys you can use when it’s just 2 of you before you’ve done everything you can do together… the options become limitless when you add a third, and forth or more!

While not all couples engage in swinging when their partner isn’t present, it can work well if both partners are able to find suitable playmates. Usually it’s more difficult for the male partner to find playmates if the female counterpart is gorgeous, and having seen photos of Tiger’s wife I’d say she fits into that category. He on the other hand, while not Brad Pitt, has the allure of fame and fortune to boost his attraction factor so finding a playmate (or 4) obviously isn't an issue.

He's away on tour regularly which is a perfect opportunity for some extra fun with someone new. While he plays up on tour, she could go out or entertain her choice of Adonis at home, and the next day they could both be sharing their raunchy experiences with each other over the phone or by text… Experienced swingers use these individual experiences as stimulation for a time when they come back to each other.

It seems like the perfect solution to an age old problem but the issue is that people have got way too much “stuff” (emotional baggage) to allow their relationship to evolve to that point. Experienced swingers allow swinging to enhance not just their sex life, but their emotional connection to each other. They have a deeper level of trust in their partner, they communicate openly and consistently, they are completely honest and love at depths many couples never experience.

Jealousy, possessiveness and fear are what stop people from evolving their relationship to that level. The other factor is the brain-washing.. um, I mean “education” from a young age that we should meet our soul mate and marry them, committing to only having one partner for the rest… of… our… lives… which could go on for a whole century! Yikes!

Part of our genetic make up includes the amount of variety we need in order to be completely fulfilled and happy. People who don’t cope with any change, who need things to be consistently consistent in order for them to feel happy and secure, are people who are happily monogamous but this is only a very small percentage of the population. The majority of people need varying degrees of variety to enjoy life and then there is another small percentage that needs constant change so they don’t get bored.

In our lives we fulfill those needs in our work, in our hobbies but when it comes to our relationship, we force ourselves to fit into the “traditional” box that is socially acceptable and then when the temptation gets too much for us to resist, and our need for variety takes hold, we do what we naturally want to do – enjoy what life has to offer. Considering the majority of people have a need for a large amount of variety, it’s no wonder that divorce and infidelity are on the rise!

If Mrs. Woods could dump her own baggage, and Tiger could open up to her and have a fully honest conversation about his real needs and desires (the conversation that many people avoid), then they could start taking baby steps into a lifestyle that has more to offer than just a variety of playmates, sex and wild times, it has the potential to build stronger bonds between them and opening them up to creating a truly phenomenal love affair… with each other!

And that’s just what I think!